When who we are and what we believe in conflicts with the traditions that we’re raised in, life broadly leaves us three choices: we can change who we are to fit the tradition, we can leave the tradition behind, or we can try to change the tradition to fit our ideals.

That last choice requires courage. Change is not easy, and when it comes to a tradition like religion, many become upset when people start tinkering with how things are done. 

But that’s exactly what Rabbi Amichai Lau-Lavie has been doing. The rabbi who runs an alternative Jewish synagogue in New York City grew up in Israel under a lineage of orthodox rabbis. But Rabbi Lau-Lavie and his congregation at Lab/Shul don’t practice orthodox Judaism, they’re doing something unique and experimental. 

The new documentary, “Sabbath Queen” explores the life of Rabbi Lau-Lavie and more. Tomorrow, the rabbi will be at an event at the Isaac Agree Downtown Synagogue in Detroit. The film will be screening Sunday at the DIA. 

Sandi DuBowski is the filmmaker. He spoke with Cary Junior II.

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The University of Michigan is ending gender-affirming care for minors, leaving an untold number of families with fewer options and greater uncertainty.

Gender-affirming care for minors is legal in Michigan, and major medical and mental-health associations recognize it as best practice. Research links it to lower depression and suicide risk. 

But a Michigan Medicine spokesperson said in a prepared statement that the risks of offering this care are now too high. This comes after it received a federal subpoena as part of a criminal and civil investigation into gender-affirming care for minors.

“We recognize the gravity and impact of this decision for our patients and our community. We are working closely with all those impacted,” the statement reads.

The announcement represents a profound loss for families. For some young people, it means a place they felt safe and could trust is closing its doors. And the consequences are real: more anxiety, more depression, greater risk of suicide.

Equality Michigan’s Emme Zanotti joined Robyn Vincent to discuss the impacts on Michigan families. Zanotti, a trans woman, also took off her advocate hat to reflect on the personal reverberations she feels at this moment.

Michigan Medicine did not respond to an email request about the number of patients who will be affected and how the hospital plans to assist patients during this transition. 

Editor’s Note: After this conversation aired, Corewell Health, a major healthcare provider in Michigan, also announced the end of its gender-affirming care. 

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In this episode of The Detroit Evening Report, we cover the opening of a new exhibit at the Carr Center centered around Black queerness. Plus, festivals to check out this weekend and more.

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New Carr Center exhibit showcases Black queerness

The Carr Center opened a new exhibit today called “In the Life – Black Queerness.” 13 artists share works around the theme, “Looking back, moving forward.” The show runs through October 11.

Visitors can meet the exhibit’s artists and curators on Saturday, Sep. 6 at 2 p.m. as they discuss their work, vision and creative practices.

The Carr Center is located at 4750 Woodward Avenue on the third floor.

Entertainment returns to Michigan Central Station

Michigan Central’s Fridays at the Station series returns next week on Sep. 12 with DJ BJ and local singer Charity holding the music for the event. It kicks off at 5 p.m. and ends at 10 p.m. For more information and tickets, visit michigancentral.com/events.

6 Mile Street Festival

The 6 Mile Street Festival is this Saturday, Sep. 6. It celebrates the culture and vibrance of neighborhoods along McNichols between Livernois and Wyoming, with offerings including children’s activities at the University of Detroit Mercy, specials from restaurants along the corridor, and an outdoor party at Chon’s House of Hair. Learn more at live6detroit.org.

Dally in the Alley

Dally in the Alley takes over the Cass Corridor on Saturday, Sep. 6 from 11 a.m. through 11 p.m. The iconic Detroit street festival features music, food and even a dog show. Get this year’s lineup at dallyinthealley.com.

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